Wednesday, May 4, 2011

April Showers Bring ... April Loot!

A couple of weeks ago, our yard sale season started.  Not a lot of sales, but enough to get me psyched.  The last one I went to was three houses down from me: my neighbor and an unknown-to-me friend had pooled a huge amount of kid and household stuff.  I saw a soft-spoken woman there who was a familiar face at jewelry tables everywhere I go, and we exchanged smiles (real ones) as we looked around.  I asked my neighbor if she had any jewelry, and she said "no" but she'd check with her friend - who had just answered the same question for the lady, and had decided to call her daughter to bring a bag of things she'd forgotten over.

That, I think, was the moment that defined the Season.

Why?  Well, the bag came and the friend gave it to the lady to pick through.  I waited patiently on the side.  The friend saw this and suggested it be dumped to give us both access.  I found an earring and realized the lady had the other, so I showed her and smiled that secret smile to show we'd both scored - yes, it was heavy, and though I hadn't seen a mark, I was willing to take a chance.  And when I saw the lady grip hers a bit tighter, I looked a bit closer, and found an illegible smoosh.  Promising, right?  The usual, right?  No.  When the friend started calculating the lady's diggings, I heard her ask "what good is a single earring?"  I waited for the lady to say "I have one just like it," or the honest "it might be gold and I'm willing to take the chance," or even, if she had a mark she could read, "it's gold, but I can't tell how much, so I'll take a chance and offer you" whatever.

Instead, this really nice, pleasantly refined lady told her that I had the other one, and since she'd asked for the jewelry first she should have both.

Welcome to the new paradigm.  With gold closing in on $1600, everyone is hunting for the good stuff.  That doesn't bother me - my superpower, according to the Big Lug, is to find things other people miss - but what does bother me is the way people are going about it.  My daughter got a call within 15 minutes of her yard sale posting on CraigsList, looking for jewelry.  I got to places 30 min early last weekend and found empty boxes and baskets all over the place, with tales of the shark-after-chum-like fights that broke out (yet still found great things, by the way).  One neighbor told me someone was knocking on her door at 4am!  I know I'm losing out at yard sales by not showing up before sunrise or by haunting shops still - or by looking accidentally at a hallmark (and so pay more thanks to Mama Angel).  I don't care.  There are still plenty of bargains out there, mark-spying or not.

Case in point.


Yellow gold, white gold, or sterling-and-gold all.  Malachite, rose quartz, jade, pearls, and diamonds (lots of those), too.  Nearly one troy ounce found this month (counting stones and sterling, not counting the watch, which I won't disconnect from the plated band since I wear it).  Did I pay more for this than I did last year?  Yes - the gold watch was all of $25 at a church sale.  But there's not a single piece I couldn't profit from, and well, if I decided to sell or scrap it.  Most were under $10, many under $2, and the single (disk-shaped) earring was even free (at an antique mall, yet)!  These were mostly not yard sales, though.  I'm not desperate enough to beat the piranhas to the feeding tank.

Then there's this:


Sterling.  Lots of it.  303g of it (along with lapis, black pearls, garnets, malachite, and diamonds).  Funny about that, by the way - people seem to be pricing the necklaces exactly the same as rings or charms (coupla bucks).  Weird, since most of the chains you see weigh a half-ounce and up.  Seriously.



Admittedly, the big pendant is about the same weight.  But those bracelets?  Wow!  (The top one, by the way, has Swedish import marks.  I'm doing the research to find out who made it.  Oh, and it's 835, not 925 ... forgot until just now.  And those fish on the pin?  Norway.  Not a top artist, but not unknown.)

Unknown pieces, to be tested, were all around, too.


Okay, the one thing is beads of hematite, and that gorgeous tribal set is partially magnetic (I'll wear it for belly dancing ... shut up).  Oh, funny story about that pin - it was black when I saw it, and my first thought was that it was G.T. Marsh.  I forgot I had a magnet in my pocket.  The only time when a sticking magnet is a good thing.

And lest you think I am just that good (even though I am), here's a tiny bit of the absolute crap I bought.


There's more, but I put it in a bag to go to a thrift shop (or tossed it ... some things should never see the light of day again).  And purses and good but not rare glass.  And the practical stuff, too.  All that I didn't feel like dragging out to photograph.  Some of these I bought on purpose, by the way, even knowing it was crap - that "malachite" bracelet is plastic, but it was on a card at a yard sale with a necklace ("Malachite Set, $6") that had a silver charm and a 14K white gold chain (in the first picture).  And those two circle pins will show up in some future blogs all about things I find because of my superpower.  Oh, and the one pin is actually amber beads with Russian marks.  Not gold, but really pretty.

I'm in the process of pulling a whole lot of stuff from my Great Purge, my Internet Yard Sale, to scrap instead - almost all silver.  Even though an ounce of silver is about the same as a pennyweight of 14K gold, I have a buttload of it.  And, yes, I will write that blog very soon - I actually cut up one of a pair of weighted candlesticks to find out just how much is really silver.  Very cool pictures.  I will also try to be better about weekly updates, in between writing our second mystery novel and tutoring SAT and ACT students (not to mention still hitting the thrifts, consignments, and junk shops).  It's a full life!

And that lady with the earring?  As the friend pondered her proposal/demand, the friend turned just so ... and I mouthed the word "gold."  She decided to keep them.  Turned out she was a recent widow whose husband's sudden death had not only left her hurting badly for money, but the roomers she had been forced to take in last year had stolen most of the jewelry her mother-in-law had left the family.  These were the remnants of that.  The jewelry lady took the friend's phone number to see if she changes her mind later (instead of leaving hers and waiting for her target to call).  I offered, instead, to educate the friend, without any offers or agendas at all, and even gave her my scrap guy's number.

Okay, the last action might have been because of just a twinge of guilt.  I informed her of the earring's content only mostly out of fairness and justice ... since I really couldn't see a hallmark ...

Hey, even I'm tempted sometimes.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Confession Time

Still not sane.  Well, finally (somewhat) sane but not physically fit.  The SAT was March 12th.  I should be recovered.  I'm not.  Dunno what's going on, but I figured I'd just own up to a few things, all in the spirit of love ... or maybe excessive hormonal bitchiness ...

... there's a reason over-50-year-old women don't have kids.  The Big Lug and I were caretakers of our vivacious and fantastic 7-year-old granddaughter (Princess) for the last week.  While I adored having her here, and we not only had fun but rebonded big time, I haven't had a decent night's sleep in a week (the Mommy Radar is never lost) and I threw my back out three days before she arrived, so I ... well, I didn't give her nearly as many baths as I should have.  Shh, don't tell her mother ...

... I've found several very cool pieces but have been breaking even instead of wildly profiting.  Don't care.  I feel very well-decorated, and well-deserving of it ... and so I, uh, gave myself a bonus to salt the mines for the Spring Feeding Frenzy-to-come ... out of my kitchen fund ...

... the next Thrift Shop person who sees me take out my magnifying glass and snorts, "it's not gold; our people are excellent at catching marks," is going to get an earful of the things their "people" have missed - with pictures ... and commentary ...

... I don't want to learn more about sterling silver so I can write the blog on silver.  I don't want to learn anything right now.  I'd rather know everything ...

See you in another quantum week.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Moving Forward

Somehow the days got away from me. Last week I skipped because I was depressed without knowing why.  Then I remembered my mother died one year ago Saturday, and I understood, wallowed, and got better.  This week I'm just trying to keep my head above water with all the students and the new book and my HBP meds making me pretty groggy.  And since the Hunt is the only thing that's even remotely optional, that's what's gone away...for now.

I have another couple of weeks of this schedule.  And then (unless I find something in the street) I will write the post I intended to write in the first place, the one about this:

See you when my life is my own again!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Assets V. Obligations 2011

Last year, after my mother died, I went a little nuts.  Yes, I paid all non-mortgage debts, and yes, I still have almost all of what was left of the inherited money to buy back the Big Lug's military retirement as soon as we can.  But, honestly, instead of kicking up his 401K to the max (including catch-up since we hit 50 in 2009) I spent the raises and most of the natural excess, and not all of it on the house (which would have been an investment).  We travelled.  We bought silly things (two flat-screen TVs!).  And we ate out more than usual.

I felt remorse come Fall, which, of course, only proved the truth of what I call "The Bunny Paradox":  Guilt about Spending/Eating can only be cured by More Spending/Eating.  Illogical (check).  Self-defeating (check).  Annoying (check and check).  But clear and present for my entire life (sigh), and since everyone had a pretty good Christmas, what the hell, right?

My procrastination with the money-recap had more to do with an explosion of tutorial students (yay), the First Chapter brain fog (yay, huh?), and lingering anxiety after the wet snow left us without power (one day) and cable/internet (almost four days!) during the critical time (boo!!!).  But though I'm a bit over a week late, I was pleased with the results.

We are currently worth almost double last year's total.

I love this New Year!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Happy New Year!

I didn't do my assets vs. obligations this year on time (31 Jan) mostly because I had a chapter to write, the first chapter of the second book in the series written by me and my two partners and friends (and yes, we're still friends after working together for a year).  I also forgot (until today) that it's a brand-new year, as of Thursday, by the Chinese calendar.  According to this, it will be a year for focusing on family and home, of a drawing back of countries to lock down borders, and of more artistic pursuits and keeping the peace everywhere.

Suits me.  Fix up the house, spend more time with family, write with my partners on our series and by myself on my own projects, these were part of the plan even before I read the Zodiac characteristics.  Peace, diplomacy, a pullback to save sanity and energy after the fierce (and dangerous to people with head and neck issues) Year of the Tiger we just left is the name of the game.  And to commemorate this new year, I stopped at a little consignment shop I hardly ever go to and found this:

No, not a crystal ball, and not a great picture (one light, on the left, duh) but it's a 14K white gold ring, pearl, six diamonds, very pretty.  The tag said $69 but it went to half-price on New Year's Day (this New Year's Day), and waited for me to find it.

Because, you see, last year was the Tiger.  2011 is the Year of the Bunny.

The Golden Bunny.

This just keeps getting better and better, doesn't it?